We are all searching for the n of 1 in life. The job, partner, house, and even the tuxedo that matches us perfectly.
With such a limited denominator, there is no margin for error. Some may argue that this is the point. There is only one person out there for us, one job, etc. and not to settle until you find it. Others may say that life is about the motha f*cking present, so in the words of Stephen Stills “love the one you are with!”
I don’t have the right answer, even if there is one, but the n of 1 can be a vibe in the daily and who you spend your time with.
Sometimes the n of 1 is just following your instinct... you walk into a room and you are just drawn to people. Not always romantically, often more kinetically. N of 1 people will likely appear in your life but it’s up to you to pull on the thread.
Another way to think of it is not in the exemplaray way, but rather in the intertwined connection. Everyone is an n of 1, not always for everyone, but perhaps for just one other person.
Maybe the point is to simply expand the demoniator?